Almost anyone could make a good marriage partner if they knew what to do and were willing to do the work. Unfortunately, most people aren’t raised to be competent husbands, wives, fathers, and mothers.
I can’t do much about your desire to do the work, but I can show you what you need to do to become competent.
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Men historically only protected women who belonged to them. As Western incentive structures erode, society is reverting to a world where unprotected women face growing danger.
When she says her husband is great on paper, she is revealing a marriage with no polarity or desire — just a checklist. The real problem is not chores, it is that she turned her husband into a second wife.
The same hardships that forge masculine strength beat the softness out of women. If you want a feminine wife, protect her from the harshness that was never meant for her.
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